Im cant say im a big fan of the pet losing stats upon death but that is something that was always around so i learned to live with it, the one thing i must say i am displeased about is that since they redid the caps on pets, all old donation elder ww that were 2 slots got nerfed, mine all lost isane ammounts of hp dropping them to the 2 slot pet cap, which i thought wasn't cool.
About the bosses that are anti pets well, its a different challenge and should not be easy for all, we sometimes need a challenge to better ourselves as players. Also, i like the fact that the world still as surprises for us, like the Captain Minotaurs you are talking about, if everything was predictable the game would become dull realy quick. And maybe im mistaken, but aren't minotaurs spawning on the high level T-maps? Not everything should be easy, again, its a new challenge!
Remember that nothing is set in stone and like all players, the shard evolves, the stronger players get, the stronger the mobs get too!