@ Allestaria
I agree that players need to have goals, need to find their own gear Vs. handouts, and need a place/person to answer newbie questions for them.
@ The Main Topic
However, giving new players 50k, a low level weapon, or a set of low level armor does not ruin anything for a new player, IMO. Rather it, should, show them there is indeed things to work for. That better stuff is out there. But of course it should be given sparingly.
Also, buying them their first house plot doesn't stop them from buying the other two plots, that an account is allotted, on their own. I'd like to point out that in my original post, I mentioned a house plot. Not buying new player's Lord British's Castle.
Though I appreciated his generosity, and he knows who he is; I was once offered 10 [+1] weapon leveling deeds, and 500k, for falling short at an Evasion, in Yew. I turned his generous off down, because I didn't want hand outs. It's not how I play. My point here is simple, offer what you can when there are new players in need. Not everyone can offer the same things. It is up to the new player to choose what they need, not us. Some new players get nothing, others get everything. Thus is life in UO-EVO...
--Sturger--