I don't think you need this anymore, but i'll post for helping others who find this thread in the future.
I did this quest some time ago and it was all fine, the only difference is that i started it from a NPC in heartwood (go to Yew, then enter the portal at the center of the city), as explained in the official quest guide: http://www.uoguide.com/Patience
You can follow that guide step to step and it will be good.
Just remember that here Jar of Honey is only from players (ask in chat or look in player shops) and sack of flour you can buy from the stone in brit cooking shop (brith north)